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Tuesday, April 14, 2009

chances

"A leopard nv changes its spot." Comment.

how true is that? maybe to a certain extent. i feel that this sentence doesnt apply to everyone. and i feel that this sentence 害死很多人.. in this entry, i will tell u a story which is linked to this sentence and elaborate on my tots. (不要管我，我中毒太深。。) and i will not mentioned real names here.

ABC had been this playful and very naughty boy since young. but he is a clever boy. he went to a 名校 in pri sch (i considered that as a 名校 cos it really used to be quite popular.) den went to a good sec sch. at least better than the sch i went. didnt complete his diploma and came out to the society to work and play. frm wat i noe, he party quite often.

there was one incident which left a v deep impression on me. maybe on everyone else too.
he partied one nite and den got slashed at the back. went to the hospital to sew up. hey its a v long slash okay. i've seen it and it looks so painful. if i were the one to be slashed, i guess i'll cry until i die instead of bleed until die. anyway he didnt die la. still living nicely to date.
tat was an accident. i heard it was becos the 'slasher' slash the wrong guy. i dunno the real story either.
i tot this kind of thing onli happen in the movies/dramas. nv expect it to happen in real life. and somemore its someone 'close' to me. anyway this happened few yrs ago.

i guess 'we' always tink of him mixing ard with the wrong bunch of frenz. always 吃喝嫖赌 lo. how bad. i noe many ppl have super bad impression of him and some even look down on him. so sad lo. actually i kinda pity him. i tink he's a v clever person, jus that he didnt fully make use of it at the right place la. everytime something happen, he's always the one to be blamed. i tink he always gets blamed for things he nv do. poor thing.
most ppl onli see the bad side of him. but who really tried to understand him? probably his frenz la. actually i see him as one having alot of 上进心 lo. he went to get a pte diploma and from an ah beng, he is now doin a managerial position at a bank. he has to support his whole family of 4 since he is the onli one working now. imagine the stress and burden he has. he mentioned getting a degree but its not within his limits.

he has tried hard. but there are still ppl who cant accept him. ppl will say he is the leopard who cant change his spots. and i tink he oso 任命 liao. i nv heard him complained anything b4. 这一点是让我欣赏他的地方.
i guess he has proved himself to be good. ppl jus have to give him more chances.
i forgot wat else i wan to say liao. tired.

11:41 PM